Stop Trying To Build An Audience

November 4, 2025
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5 min read

Let’s get one thing straight.

The creator economy is a beautifully designed casino. And the house is always winning.

You’re grinding. You’re posting. You’re consuming endless tutorials on growth hacks and “proven blueprints,” hoping one of them will finally be the key.

You feel like you’re one course away from a breakthrough.

This is not a coincidence. It’s by design.

The system thrives on your confusion. It sells you the dream of a freedom, wealth, and purpose while hooking you on the dopamine of external validation. It’s a game where the odds are stacked, and you’re paying for your seat with your time, your money, and your soul.

You’ve been taught to chase metrics, to appease algorithms, to play the game.

The problem is you’re playing the wrong game.

If you’re tired of the noise and ready to build something that lasts, you don’t need more advice. You need to focus on what actually matters.

Today’s article is a slightly different (and shorter) format. I want to share a few reflections that will help you take back control.

Here are three truths that will change the game for you.


1. Your Audience is Not the Algorithm.

This is the first, and most critical, distinction. The algorithm is a machine programmed to maximize one thing: attention for the platform. It will reward whatever is novel, shocking, or fleeting. It feels like an audience because it gives you feedback. You get likes, views, shares… but it’s a fickle, selfish, and ultimately inhuman master.

Your audience, your real audience, is a small group of humans who have a specific problem, a worldview, a hope, or a fear. Your job begins and ends with serving them. Deeply understanding them. Earning their trust.

The algorithm wants you to make content for anyone. A strategy demands you make a change happen for someone. Choose the someone. The rest is a distraction.


2. Build an Asset, Not Just a Feed.

A feed is rented land. Every day you have to post something new to pay the rent. It’s a treadmill. A viral video is not an asset; it’s a lightning strike. You can’t build a house with lightning strikes.

An asset is something you own. It’s the thing that works for you while you sleep. For a sovereign creator, the most valuable assets are:

  • Permission: The privilege of contacting people who want to hear from you. This is an email list. A direct line.
  • Reputation: The story people tell about you when you’re not in the room. This is the trust you’ve earned.
  • A Body of Work: The back catalog that a new fan can explore, deepening their connection.

Every piece of content you create should be in service of building one of these assets. If it doesn’t, it’s just content. It’s for the feed, not for your future.


3. It’s a Practice, Not a Performance.

A performance is a one-time event. It’s about the big launch, the viral moment, the home run. It’s stressful, high-stakes, and unsustainable. It’s the source of burnout.

A practice is a commitment. It’s the act of showing up, consistently and generously, for your true audience. It’s the daily work of chiseling, of shipping, of learning. It embraces the fact that most days won’t feel like a breakthrough.

Trust has to be earned. Earned through practice. Your job is not to become an overnight success. It’s a commitment to a process that, over time, makes success inevitable because you’ve become the person your audience seeks out and relies on.

Stop trying to be discovered. Start the practice of leading.


Use these three truths as a compass.

They reorient your work away from the constant noise of the creator casino and toward a center of gravity you can control: your own authentic contribution. They shift the game from an external one you can’t win to an internal one you can’t lose.

It is simple to understand, but not easy to execute. Why?

Because the entire creator economy thrives on your self-doubt. The system profits when you believe their blueprint is better than your intuition. It wins when you value a stranger’s “like” more than your own taste. It thrives by making you feel chronically inadequate, always one step behind, forever in need of the next secret.

It’s a massive, external validation machine, and choosing to unplug from it feels like a radical act. It feels unsafe.

And that creates a paradox:

  • You cannot serve a specific audience if you don’t know who you are.
  • You cannot build an authentic body of work if you’re borrowing someone else’s voice.
  • You cannot commit to a practice if it’s not aligned with your deepest motivations.

The real work begins with the center of it all: You.

In a world flooded with AI-generated noise and copycat personas, reconnecting with yourself is the most powerful move you can make.

To start this journey, you need to look inward. You need to understand your own psychological blueprint, your unique patterns, your true calling. If you’re ready to take that first step, I’ve created a free tool to help you begin this process of self-discovery: The Archetype Navigator.

It’s designed to help you understand the core of your creative identity, so you can start building a business that feels like an authentic expression of who you are.

Know thyself, then build thy world. 

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