Finding Your Niche Is The Most Dangerous Advice For Creators

July 30, 2025
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7 min read

It’s the first piece of advice they give you.

"Find your niche."

"Niche down until it hurts."

This is also the advice that creates more burnout, imposter syndrome, and soul-crushing content than anything else.

The entire model is a trap. It’s a relic from an industrial age that forces you to build a box, then contort yourself to fit inside it for the rest of your career.

You follow the playbook. You pick a topic based on market research. You A/B test headlines. You churn out soulless content based on keyword research, hoping to please an algorithm that doesn't know your name. You follow the gurus, copying their funnels and their posting schedules, becoming a faint echo of someone else's success.

Six months later, you're bored, you feel like a fraud, and you’re shouting into a void that doesn’t seem to care.

Why?

Because you’ve become a factory worker. You’re showing up everyday (“be consistent”) to produce output (“create value”). 

The market is saturated with creators who are all saying the same thing in slightly different fonts. They're obsessed with output, not what's worth putting out.

This is the path to becoming a commodity. And commodities always compete on price. You don't want to be the cheapest.

Stop Searching for a Niche

We’ve been given a broken definition.

A niche isn’t a market category you choose from a drop-down menu.

Stop searching for a niche

You read that right. Stop looking for it.

Your obsession with "finding an audience" is the very thing keeping you from getting one.

You don't have an audience problem. You have a signal problem.

Your job isn't to find people. Your job is to become so undeniably, authentically, and usefully yourself that the right people can't help but find you.

How do you do this?

You build from the inside out.

The Stuff AI Can't Fake

AI can write a blog post. It can design a logo. It can spit out a business plan.

Here's what it can't do:

  • It can't have your scars.
  • It can't have your specific, weird, obsessive interests.
  • It can't have your unique psychological makeup.

This is your ultimate leverage.

Most creators try to compete on skills AI can already do. This is insane. You can't out-machine a machine.

It's a race to the bottom. AI can produce infinite noise for almost zero cost.

When AI can generate a month's worth of generic niche content in 30 seconds, your "useful tips" have a market value of zero.

The game has changed. Your skills are not your moat. Your authenticity is.

But "authenticity" isn't about "being yourself." That's another persistent myth of the creator economy.

Authenticity is the byproduct of understanding your own psychology so deeply that you can't help but be unique. It's about building from your core, not your competence.

A New Paradigm: Building From the Inside Out

Forget market research for a moment. The answers you truly need aren't in Google Trends. They're in your psyche.

The 99% of creators are fighting over the same keywords. The 1% understand that true differentiation is non-negotiable and it comes from within. They operate with an internal guidance system.

Here is a new model for understanding your unique value, built on three fundamental levels:

1. Psyche (The How)

Everyone operates on a psychological blueprint. A set of internal psychological patterns. Carl Jung called them archetypes. You might be a Sage (driven by wisdom), an Explorer (driven by discovery), or a Rebel (driven to disrupt).

Most people don't know their own blueprint. You need to.

Knowing this tells you how you naturally create value. It's the difference between forcing yourself to build a system (if you're a creative Explorer) versus forcing yourself to be spontaneous (if you're a structured Sage). Your Psyche determines how you uniquely create value.

2. Pathos (The What)

This is the wisdom forged in your "sacred wound." Your most difficult struggles, your unique failures, your hard-won perspective. This is the data set no one else on earth possesses. 

Your Pathos is what allows you to speak with undeniable authority and empathy. It’s the reason an audience will trust you over an AI-generated summary. They don't just want information. They want information filtered through the lens of lived experience. Your Pathos determines what you can speak about in a way no one else can.

3. Purpose (The Why)

This is your intrinsic mission. It’s the change you feel compelled to make, the problem you can’t stop thinking about long after you've closed your laptop. It's the why that fuels you when the metrics are flat and the external validation disappears.

Purpose is the ultimate filter. Amateurs chase every shiny object and "monetizable" opportunity. Professionals filter every opportunity through the lens of their purpose. It tells them what to say "no" to, which is the most powerful productivity hack in existence. Your Purpose determines why your work matters, both to you and, eventually, to others.


When you operate from the intersection of Psyche, Pathos, and Purpose, your niche reveals itself. It stops being a box and becomes a signal that attracts the audience that needs you.

This is why the advice to "follow your passion" and "solve a problem" so often fails. It leads you to a spreadsheet of passion-problem combinations you don't truly care about. You start a Substack about "AI productivity for busy solopreneurs" because it seems viable, but you die a little inside every time you have to write another listicle.

You're confusing producing with progress. You're mistaking output for authentic expression.

From Theory to Action

Just consuming this article is a form of procrastination. The only way to uncover your uniqueness is through action.

Let’s make it easy:

Step 1: Map Your Psyche.

Stop asking what you're "good at." That's the language of the old paradigm, of fitting yourself into a pre-existing box. Instead, ask what feels like play.

Review your past work. When did you feel most in a state of flow? When did you feel most alive? Identify the archetypal energy behind that work. That is your natural creative state. 

This is the most critical first step, and it's also the hardest to do objectively on your own. Our self-perception is clouded by what we think we should be, not who we actually are. We might look at our past work and struggle to see the deep archetypal patterns driving us. Are we a Sage organizing chaos, or a Rebel dismantling it? Is our energy that of a nurturing Caregiver or a pioneering Explorer?

Guessing is not a strategy.

To solve this, you need a diagnostic tool. A mirror that reflects your true psychological blueprint.

That's precisely why I built the free Archetype Navigator.

It's a tool designed specifically for creators like you. It helps you to cut your own biases and give you a better understanding of your unique creative operating system.

Step 2: Mine Your Pathos

Take something practical you know how to do. Now, explain it through the lens of your biggest life lesson or "sacred wound." That's your unique angle. That's your content strategy.

  • Instead of teaching: "How to build an accessible website."
  • You teach: "How being an outsider taught me to build digital spaces where no one feels left out."

One is a commodity. The other is a story, a perspective, a unique value proposition. Stop teaching "how-to." Start teaching "how-I-overcame," and you'll find an audience that needs your specific wisdom.

Step 3: Define Your Purpose

Your purpose is your ultimate shield against the noise of the creator economy. Before you agree to any project, write any article, or create any product, ask one question: "Does this directly serve the change I am compelled to make?"

If the answer is a "maybe," or "it could help me make money," the answer is "no." This single habit will save you hundreds of hours of wasted effort on soul-crushing, misaligned work. It will keep you focused on building the one thing that only you can build.

Stop Guessing. Start Aligning.

You want to get paid to be yourself.

That means you first have to know who you are. Not the persona you think you should be, but the deep, unique, psychologically-driven individual you actually are.

Then, you have to frame that uniqueness in a way that is insanely useful to a specific group of people who share your worldview.

This is the work. It's not easy, but it's simpler than you think.

Stop consuming. Start building.

Stop overthinking. Start shipping.

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